يا ايها النبي اذا طلقتم النساء فطلقوهن لعدتهن واحصوا العدة واتقوا الله ربكم لا تخرجوهن من بيوتهن ولا يخرجن الا ان ياتين بفاحشة مبينة وتلك حدود الله ومن يتعد حدود الله فقد ظلم نفسه لا تدري لعل الله يحدث بعد ذلك امرا

 يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّبِىُّ إِذَا طَلَّقْتُمُ ٱلنِّسَآءَ فَطَلِّقُوهُنَّ لِعِدَّتِهِنَّ وَأَحْصُوا۟ ٱلْعِدَّةَ ۖ وَٱتَّقُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ رَبَّكُمْ ۖ لَا تُخْرِجُوهُنَّ مِنۢ بُيُوتِهِنَّ وَلَا يَخْرُجْنَ إِلَّآ أَن يَأْتِينَ بِفَـٰحِشَةٍ مُّبَيِّنَةٍ ۚ وَتِلْكَ حُدُودُ ٱللَّهِ ۚ وَمَن يَتَعَدَّ حُدُودَ ٱللَّهِ فَقَدْ ظَلَمَ نَفْسَهُۥ ۚ لَا تَدْرِى لَعَلَّ ٱللَّهَ يُحْدِثُ بَعْدَ ذَٰلِكَ أَمْرًا

Imagine you were walking somewhere and you suddenly see a sign that says 'DO NOT ENTER - Mine Field Ahed.'  You would thank whoever placed that sign there. You wouldn't think of it as an obstruction of your freedom, but rather a precaution for your own safety. 

This is exactly how Allah's laws and prohibitions work. They are not obstructions of freedom, but rather a way to ensure your safety.  

This is why Allah says: 'Whoever transgresses Allah's limits has truly wronged his own soul.'
- Dr. Ahmad Eesa al-Masarawi

Whenever I’m reciting this surah, this particular line hits me, 'You never know, perhaps Allah will bring about a change ˹of heart˺ later.'  This line is really comforting. Sometimes you meet some people in your life who are rude and disrespectful sometimes even your family members are like this but here Allah is telling u that you never know perhaps I’ll change their hearts so just keep making duas for their hidayah. Put your trust in Allah, only Allah can change anything and everything according to how He wills, and you won’t even care if you asked for something, and it didn’t go your way.

65:1 
لَا تَدْرِى لَعَلَّ ٱللَّهَ يُحْدِثُ بَعْدَ ذَٰلِكَ أَمْرًا 
You never know—Allah may afterwards bring about a new matter.

68:18
وَلَا يَسْتَثْنُونَ
Leaving no thought for Allah’s Will.

57:23
لِّكَيْلَا تَأْسَوْا۟ عَلَىٰ مَا فَاتَكُمْ وَلَا تَفْرَحُوا۟ بِمَآ ءَاتَىٰكُمْ ۗ وَٱللَّهُ لَا يُحِبُّ كُلَّ مُخْتَالٍ فَخُورٍ
so that you may neither grieve on what has escaped you, nor over-exult on what He has given you. And Allah does not love any self-admirer, over-proud.

Allah asks us to see His will instead of ours. These 3 verses confirm Allah's share in our (positive or negative) experiences in daily/life. Verse 68:18 talks about our arrogance in forgetting Allah by attributing the life achievements to ourselves, and verse 65:1 presents our despair in forgetting Allah by attributing the life failures to ourselves. 57:23 brings the two together.

It's easy to do the ‘right thing’ in life when we think only about the mundane small tasks that we fulfil each and every day. It’s easy to do the ‘right thing’ in life in the absence of pressure and stress. The real test of our character is when we are under pressure, when the stakes are high. Sometimes we use such circumstances to make excuses for ourselves to perhaps not do the right thing: the challenges of the situation we found ourselves in provide us with ample reasons to justify our actions. The thing that stood out for me in this surah is that Allah reminds us (three times on the first page) to have Taqwa; to fear Him and to do the ‘right thing’ in one of the most difficult situations one can find themselves in: divorce! There would be so many excuses to hide behind to justify our actions during a divorce, yet Allah reminds us again and again: Do the right thing; Do the right thing; Do the right thing! And for those who have Taqwa (and do the right thing), we are told that our reward will be a way out the situations we find ourselves in; that our matters will be made easy for us; and that we will be absolved of our sins and rewarded immensely. Do the right thing and have trust in Allah!

Jazaak Allah khair this is so true. We see the most injustice carried out at the time of divorce and post-divorce, from both sides and this is the stage where our emotions can take over if we don't have taqwa. If you can behave graciously and with taqwa through the divorce process, you are a champion MashaAllah, as it isn't easy for anyone involved in that process, including parents. 