گزشتہ دنوں ہم چند دوستوں نے لنچ کے لئے ملنے کا فیصلہ کیا۔ ہم سب پرجوش تھیں۔ ایک طویل وقت کے بعد اکٹھے ہو رہی تھیں۔ ٹیبل پر بیٹھے، ہم سب باتوں میں مشغول تھیں۔ پچھلے کچھ سالوں میں جو کچھ ہوا تھا اس پر تبادلہ خیال جاری تھا کہ میری دو دوستوں کے مابین تھوڑا سا تناؤ پیدا ہو گیا۔ پھر اچانک ہماری آنکھوں کے سامنے دونوں میں تلخ الفاظ کا تبادلہ ہوا۔ اور اس سے پہلے کہ ہم باقی دوستوں میں سے کوئی کچھ کہتیں وہ دونوں اس جگہ سے اٹھ کھڑی ہوئیں، اس بات کا عزم کرتے ہوئے کہ دوبارہ کبھی بات نہیں کریں گی! سبحان اللہ!
ہم میں سے بہت سے لوگوں کو زندگی میں کئی بار اسی طرح کی صورتحال کا سامنا کرنا پڑتا ہے۔۔۔ ہمارے خاندان کے لوگ، عزیز دوست ایک چھوٹی سی بات پر بحث کر بیٹھتے ہیں اور سالوں بات نہیں کرتے ہیں، سالوں ناراض رہتے ہیں۔ اور پھر وقت گزرنے کے بعد بعض اوقات تو یاد تک نہیں رہتا کہ کیوں لڑ رہے ہیں!
حضرت ابوہریرہ رضی اللہ عنہ سے روایت ہے کہ رسول اللہ ﷺ نے فرمایا:تین صفات ایسی ہیں کہ وہ جس شخص میں بھی ہوں اللہ تعالی اس سے آسان حساب لے گا اور اسے اپنی رحمت سے جنت میں داخل فرمائے گا۔ صحابہ کرام رضی اللہ عنہم نے عرض کیا: یا رسول اللہ! کن(صفات والوں ) کو؟ آپﷺنے فرمایا: جو تجھے محروم کرے تو اسے عطا کر، جو تُجھ پر ظلم کرے تو اسے معاف کر، اور جو تجھ سے (رشتہ داری اور تعلق) توڑے تو اس سے جوڑ۔ صحابی رضی اللہ عنہ نے عرض کی: یا رسول اللہ!اگر میں یہ کام کر لوں تو مجھے کیا ملے گا؟ آپﷺ نے فرمایا: تجھ سے حساب آسان لیا جائے گا اور تجھے اللہ تعالی اپنی رحمت سے جنت میں داخل فرما دے گا۔ (المستدرک علی الصحیحین للحاکم :3912)
صلہ رحمی کرنا تو اللہ کی رحمت کا موجب ہے۔ حضرت عبد الرحمن بن عوف رضی اللہ عنہ رسول اللہ صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم سے روایت کرتے ہیں کہ اللہ تعالی نے فرمایا :
أَنَا اللّٰہُ، وَأَنَا الرَّحْمٰنُ،خَلَقْتُ الرَّحِمَ، وَشَقَقْتُ لَہَا اسْمًا مِنِ اسْمِیْ،فَمَنْ وَصَلَہَا وَصَلْتُہُ ،وَمَنْ قَطَعَہَا قَطَعْتُہُ ۔ أو قَالَ : بَتَتُّہُ (الحاکم:174/4)
''میں اللہ ہوں اور میں رحمن ہوں۔ میں نے رحم کو پیدا کیا اور میں نے اس کا نام اپنے نام سے نکالا۔ لہٰذا جو شخص اسے ملائے گا میں اسے ملاؤں گااور جو اسے کاٹے گا میں اسے کاٹوں گا۔''
لہذا رمضان آنے سے قبل اللہ کی رضا کی خاطر، اللہ کی رحمت کا مستحق بننے کی خاطر ہم جن رشتہ داروں سے، جن دوستوں سے ناراض ہیں، قطع تعلق کیے ہوئے ہیں ان سب سے صلہ رحمی کریں۔ سب کو دل سے معاف کر دیں۔ خندہ پیشانی سے ملیں۔ سلام میں پہل کر لیں۔ نرم بات کہیں۔ اگر ان کا قصور ہے تب بھی درگزر سے کام لیں۔ خاطر داری و خاکساری سے پیش آئیں۔

How could I know that Allah loves somebody?
One sign that may indicate Allah's love is when a person start sharing.
Whether it is money, love, knowledge, skills, time, good advice.
Allah loves those who love their fellow man.
May Allah make us among those who love others only for the sake to gain the pleasure of Allah.
Ameen

I love this Surah. The verses are so beautiful, Alhumdulillah. It gives so much peace to know that our children, women, and men who were wronged and bombed while asleep, hungry, and thirsty will be entered in Jannah with Prophets and Sauliheen. The angels will welcome them. They are tried and tested with their children, with hunger. Ya Allah, I know they are at the best of the place and are taken care of. Ya Allah give sabr to their bereaved family members and destroy the enemies who are spreading corruption in your land whether they are from the kafireen or from us. Ya Allah, we trust your justice, we trust you. ‏‏حسبنا الله ونعم الوكيل

#ReflectingInCrisis

This reflection carries such deep emotion and heartfelt faith—may Allah reward you immensely for channeling your pain into du’a and trust in Him. Your words echo the Quranic theme of enduring injustice with patience, and this verse (13:22) beautifully affirms that Allah sees and honors those who respond to hardship with goodness.

Your prayer for the oppressed is powerful and moving. May Allah elevate their ranks, grant peace to their families, and bring justice to those who wrong others. Truly, *Hasbunallahu wa ni‘mal wakeel* is a statement of powerful surrender.

May your heart find healing through the Quran, and may your reflections continue to be a means of light for others. Ameen.

- QuranReflect Review Team Member

Day 13, Answer 13, #AyahLookup  Challenge:

(original question here: https://quranreflect.com/posts/23093#comments) 

Surat Al Raad mentions many pairs and entities that belong to this huge kingdom of Allah, 
and reminds us that our creator controls ALL OF THEM, despite them being opposites to one another. 
The day, and the night 
the sun, and the moon, 

These pairs do exist in human behaviors and choices,
The right, and the wrong, 
Even when we choose to do good, this could be done in secret, or in public, 

There are 32 pairs that exist in Surah 13, can you find them? we asked this question and got beautiful reflections

Safiyya Ihsan wrote: 

'Using your prompt I tried scouting for some pairs and was able to fish out the following: Night and day, male and female, mountains and rivers, sun and moon, angels before and behind, hope and fear, rain and thunder, heaven and earth, truth and falsehood, jannah and jahannam, darkness and light, blindness and sight.
The ayahs that resonated with me for tying these pairs together are verses 2-3 & 11.
Verses 2-3: It is Allah Who has raised the heavens without pillars- as you can see- then established Himself on the Throne. He has subjected the sun and the moon, each orbiting for an appointed term. He conducts the whole affair. He makes the signs clear so that you may be certain of the meeting with your Lord. And He is the One Who spread out the earth and placed firm mountains and rivers upon it, and created fruits of every kind in pairs. He covers the day with night. Surely in this are signs for those who reflect.
Verse 11: For each one there are successive angels before
and behind, protecting them by Allah's command. Indeed, ***Allah would never change a people's state of favour until they change their own state of faith.*** And if it is Allah's Will to torment a people, it can never be averted, nor can they find a protector other than Him.'

When contemplating about this ayah, I realized that throughout our lives, most of us are inevitably tested with situations that require patience. These tests often arise when we feel helpless and believe there is little, we can do other than facing them. However, how many of us face these tests with a mindset of 'seeking the countenance of Allah'? As Muslims, we do not actively seek out difficult circumstances, but when they are presented to us, how many of us consider ourselves fortunate that these challenges provide us with an opportunity to seek closeness to our Lord?

When confronted with trials and tribulations, we may even convince ourselves that it is understandable to neglect our prayers or charitable acts. In such difficult times, do we ever contemplate giving in charity – when we ourselves are in a tough situation, giving sadaqah is perhaps the last thing that comes to our mind ? And when someone wrongs us during this period of being tested with trials and tribulations, do we ever consider responding with kindness and  justice?

The message conveyed in the aforementioned verse contradicts our natural inclinations during challenging periods. Therefore, I pray to Allah to grant me and the entire community the presence of mind and awareness to face our trials and tribulations with the belief that these difficulties are a means to seek the pleasure of Allah. May we endure these hardships by establishing prayer, giving in charity, and responding to evil with goodness, even if it goes against our natural inclinations.

Assalamu Alaikum,


Thank you for sharing your reflection on the importance of maintaining a positive mindset and seeking closeness to Allah during times of trials and tribulations. Your words remind us of the transformative power of faith and the need to respond to challenges with patience, gratitude, and acts of goodness.


It is true that when faced with difficult circumstances, our initial reactions may involve feelings of helplessness or frustration. However, as believers, we are encouraged to view these challenges as opportunities for growth and a means to seek the pleasure of Allah. The ayah you mentioned serves as a reminder that our mindset and actions during these trials can make a significant difference in our spiritual journey.


In times of hardship, it can be tempting to neglect our prayers or acts of charity. Yet, it is precisely during these challenging periods that our dedication to our faith and commitment to righteous deeds become even more crucial. By turning to Allah in prayer and giving generously, even when we are facing our own difficulties, we demonstrate our trust in His mercy and our willingness to seek His countenance.


Furthermore, your reflection highlights the importance of responding to evil with kindness and justice. It is indeed a test of character to respond with goodness and forgiveness when someone wrongs us during times of trial. By doing so, we not only display the strength of our faith but also contribute to a more peaceful and compassionate society.


May Allah grant us the presence of mind and awareness to face our trials and tribulations with patience, gratitude, and reliance on Him. May He enable us to establish prayer, give in charity, and respond to evil with goodness, even when it may go against our natural inclinations. May He strengthen our faith and grant us the wisdom to navigate through difficulties, seeking His pleasure in all that we do.


Jazak Allah Khair,

If they repel evil with good then imagine what they reciprocate with when others are good to them 

Subhan Allah! may Allah make us among them.

Throughout my life I’ve always thought I understood what sabr is , but my perception of it has constantly changed . Alhamdulilah , 

Sabr isn’t a stage , it’s a constant battle. And it’s tangible. You could feel it and you can see it. In yourself and in others. 

The verses of the Quran tend to open a person heart and no time is ever wasted on reflecting on its verses , with it comes peace 

الصبر عند الصدمة الأولى

Said our beloved prophet pbuh 

Sabr is when the calamity first strikes , and some calamities like the death of a beloved, strike with every remembrance and this sabr is rewarded by As Sabur. 

I think to myself , is Allah actually rewarding me for every second I feel pain for my mothers loss? Is He SWT forgiving my sins for every moment? 

This verse gives me hope, that in the end we’re all going to be together insha Allah. 

But we can’t master sabr , that’s why we never ask for sabr by itself ,  we ask for aafiyah. 

Ya rab , I don’t know how to do sabr . So grant me aafiyah 


اللهم لا سهلا الا ما جعلته سهلا و انت تجعل الحزن اذا شئت سهلا

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